I haven’t been back here for a while; sheer laziness and the proverbial hustle if you ask me, but the compulsion to write and share bits of my soul has been kept alive in closed groups and has brought me back full circle to ….My Boudoir…My Secret Place!
I found that place within and stretched my heart out to share it without; hoping that one day at a time, one heart at a time, one life at a time will take a piece of mine and make it theirs; to me that’s my Purpose Fulfilled!
Many people have hard and fast rules about being in an abusive relationship (whether it’s emotional, mental or physical); some people asked me to stay and hold on to God to change my ex and I did for a season, very few people said leave simply because it was unheard of to do so a few years ago, hardly anyone bothered to ask what I really wanted, which was the most surprising. I learnt years later that it was important to know what one wants otherwise you’ll run the risk of trying to live someone else’s life, and make it yours but it’ll only fit like an oversized or pinched shoe, a large Mac that let’s the rain seep in.
So that has become my number one question when I listen to male and/or female friends talking about their relationship challenges …..
“What Do YOU Really Want?”
Sounds almost redundant but trust me, most people in pain can never give you an answer that they are 100% sure of, to that question. Stage 1 – First comes the pain, then the numbness, then the silence….that’s the scariest one! With each stage comes a new season, a new lesson, a new reason to keep putting one foot in front of another on that journey that we must all take, Our Journey into Fulfilling Purpose.
So ask yourself this – What do I really Want??
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