I just had a birthday and it was a blast…..no partying but my kinda quiet reveling in my soul with the best company ever! Now that may seem strange to some people but as they say “different strokes for different folks babe!” I just wanted to share my day with strangers and end it with someone that made me feel like a million bucks and some, and I did just that.
My dear friend Bubs put up a picture of me and someone said to her; “Wow! Is she getting married again?”….I laughed when she told me and she said; “Well, they just want you to be happy, with a hunk beside you”….(ROTFL!!!!!)…….Happiness – ‘a temporary state of being that is often connected with external stimuli’…..Hunk – ‘a modern day version of a Mills & Boon created picture of a perfect to look at male’……why on earth would I want temporary stimulus induced happiness with a man who might amount to nothing as his looks fade?? (more ROTFL!!!!)
My 14 year old asked me to write a bucket list at Easter; I said to her; “Baby, you’re too young to read a Geisha’s bucket list” to which she replied, “What’s a Geisha, Mama?” (wink wink)……bucket lists are started in the time of rediscovery but oftentimes are never finished
in one lifetime, but start somewhere we must so here goes…..
Year 2013:
(a) A one night stand – curious but I think it may be overrated still if he has a private jet to fly me to a private island and back to base in 24 hours….maybe….(huge grin!)
(b) Travel with my best friends – maybe 3 times but the one that will be an absolute blast will certainly not be female (sorry ladies!)
(c) Open a bar – jus a regular ‘come sit and eat so I don’t have to worry about the bills’ business that generates income for utilities
(d) Living free – I’m a glorified geisha; a mistress that’s treated with the courtesy of a married courtesan but hasn’t the encumbrances of daily caring for a house full of children and a complaining spouse…(now that’s the one that scares my ex-posse because I was Mrs Squeaky Clean for more years than I care to count!)
To my friends – I may always remain the divorced aunt whose many adventures keep your children close, listening to exciting stories their mamas may never tell…have no fear, they’d always get right counsel but with one helluva crazy story to keep them thinking the narrow path is the better option (hehehehe!)….to my family – I’m all you gat of my type and the best ‘me’ in and out of season so just enjoy me! (grin!)…..to the one who holds my heart (for now) – I do love you especially because you taught me to love me better than I do you so that’s definitely put you up there with Blue Cheese and Champagne
I’m obviously a geisha in my mind only and may never have the ‘liver’ to try most geisha-rized acts but would I give it my best shot in my own way? Damn straight I would!!!!
Here’s to the next 7 years of filling my bucket list……cheers people!
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